Marking 50th ‘Alive Day’ anniversaries

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Jim Sursely was just weeks away from returning from his combat tour when a land mine southwest of Da Nang traumatically amputated three of his limbs. He went on to achieve success as a father, business owner and, ultimately, as national commander of DAV.

The landmark commemoration of the Vietnam War began in 2012 and is now nearly at its midpoint. This year, DAV Magazine will feature members whose lives were forever changed a half century ago.

Jim Sursely had never thought about joining the military. His father was in the Army Air Corps in World War II, but his focus as a teenager had been on sports—football, baseball and basketball.

But in May 1966, war was on the minds of many. While driving down the street in his hometown of Rochester, Minn., Sursely saw a sign that said, “Uncle Sam needs you.” He went to an Army recruiter and within three months was inducted into the military.

“My motivation was to probably go to do three years … come home and use the G.I. Bill to go to school and play college football,” he said.

Sursely wasn’t challenged physically by boot camp at Fort Polk, La., and track vehicle training school at Fort Sill, Okla., was a breeze. But when he was sent to Germany, he felt like he was out of the game.

“I wasn’t a very good garrison soldier,” he said.

He volunteered for duty in Vietnam and arrived in March 1968, a month after the beginning of the Tet Offensive. In mid-February, American forces had experienced their bloodiest week of the war, with 543 Americans killed and 2,547 wounded.

Sursely was assigned to F Troop, 17th Armored Cavalry Division, part of the 196th Light Infantry Brigade, which was located in the Quế Sơn Valley, 17 kilometers southwest of Da Nang. He reported to his first sergeant and asked where the motor sergeant was.

“He said, ‘Son, we don’t actually have a motor pool, but we are going to get you a toolbox,’” Sursely recalled. “‘You’ll be a machine gunner in the third platoon. But be sure and use that toolbox whenever they need you.’”

By January of the following year, Sursely had been involved in fierce combat against Việt Cộng and North Vietnamese Army soldiers. He’d been promoted twice. On the 11th of the month, he was setting up for a night operation, making sure his unit’s Claymore mines were in place.

“I stepped on a land mine, which resulted in the amputation of both of my legs and my left arm,” he said, noting that in an odd way, the force of the blast and the accompanying fireball saved his life, cauterizing his wounds nearly as fast as they removed his limbs. “I remember going up in the air, coming back down and lying flat on my back. And I remember reaching down with my good right hand, and I touched what would be like midthigh on my right leg, which kind of gave me a feeling that I was probably OK and still intact. I had absolutely no idea that I’d lost [three] limbs at that point.”

In that same instant, the plans Sursely had for his future were forever changed. Three days later, he woke up in Japan for a fleeting moment of awareness. Several weeks and 12 major surgeries later, he regained consciousness in time to be sent stateside.

“They started feeding me whole food, getting ready for me to take the flight back to the states, and that’s when I could look with my own eyes at whatever was missing or what I had left,” he said. “So, like 30 days after my injuries was when I totally and completely realized what I had lost.”

Sursely, seen here meeting in 2004 with Brian Kolfage after his injury, continues to serve as a mentor to veterans returning from the recent wars.

While thankful to be alive, Sursely was in shock about his future. Growing up, he hadn’t been around disabled people; it was hard to imagine what he could do to support himself. This was before the Americans with Disabilities Act, he noted, and places like his hometown were not easily accessible. He recovered at Fitzsimons Army Hospital in Aurora, Colo. By the end of the year, he’d been medically retired from the military and returned to his family.

Football may have been out of the cards, but school wasn’t. Sursely studied to be a certified public accountant, but the pre-computer world of accounting was too tedious for the former combat soldier. He moved to Florida, where new construction brought greater accessibility. He went into real estate. To date, he is the top active seller of homes in the Apopka community, which he calls home.

Sursely eventually married, though his first marriage ended in divorce. He was confident. He’d grown and evolved. Today, he and second wife Jeannie run their business. He has four children, 12 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

He joined DAV in 1970 and transferred at Jeannie’s behest to Chapter 30 in Sanford. He enjoyed the camaraderie and tried to give back.

“They were remodeling the building on a couple of different occasions,” he recalled. “There’s not much I can do to help remodel but come down and be moral support and hand a tool or something up the ladder if they’re working. I always tried to do that as much as I could. And I think they viewed me as wanting to belong. It didn’t make a difference if I couldn’t climb the ladder.”

After becoming a leader in his chapter and at the state level, his fellow veteran leaders, several of whom were past national commanders, groomed him for the big stage. He walked the line and was elected national commander in 2004. Though he’s met with presidents and dignitaries, he said he’s most proud of the opportunities he’s had to talk with his fellow veterans. He teaches them, and his fellow citizens, about the value of accepting events from the past while constantly challenging perceived limitations.

Through hunting and DAV’s partnership with Boulder Crest and the Gary Sinise Foundation’s RISE Program, he connects with and mentors younger veterans returning from the current wars who are going through challenges he’s faced over the last five decades.

In one instance, he recalls sitting alongside the bed of Brian Kolfage, the first triple amputee he’d met at Walter Reed Army Medical Center, just weeks after the young man’s injury. It wasn’t a deep conversation, but Sursely wanted Kolfage to see that there was a future.

“Look, I’ve been in the chair now for more than 30 years,” he recalls telling the younger veteran. “Believe me, if you want a whole and interesting life, you can still have that. I’m living proof that it’s possible, and I’m no different than you are.”

“And at the same time my wife is standing at the end of the bed talking to his fiancée and his mother. I think [Jeannie] was equally or more effective than I was in showing them that life was going to be OK,” he added. “Brian, by the way—and I’m not sure whether it was because of any of my motivation—became a CPA college graduate. He’s married with children and just a happy young man who’s enjoying life.”